“

性格を変えて人生を良くしよう、という努力が無駄に終わってしまう理由としては、

性格を変えるのが難しいから、ということよりも、もっと重要なポイントがある。

　

それは、そもそも性格なんて、行動の結果には何の関係もないということだ。

　

　

いわゆる、性格≒「行動の特性や基本方針」というのは、

あくまでも人生における目的達成のための「手段の選び方の傾向」でしかなくて、

結果にはあまり関係無い。

”
あなたの性格は直らない。直す必要が無い。 - くろいぬの矛盾メモ (via laft) (via masctsc1000) (via ov19) (via theemitter) (via petapeta)
2010-03-22 (via gkojay) (via pcatan) (via plasticdreams) (via yaruo)

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